here's a question for u...
HATE to love or LOVE to hate---which according to you is worse??
ok now here's another one...
which according to u is better---getting married and spending ur entire life with the one ur crazy about OR getting married and spending it with someone who's crazy about u? (keeping into mind that life is often too cruel to allow the person in the two situations to be the same)
39 comments:
I would not want to be with someone who is NOT crazy about me...because if he is not, one day I might stop being crazy about him. That does not necessarily mean that I will spend my life with someone who is crazy about me, no matter what kind of a person he is..
Gosh! I am confused.
I dont think we can spend our lives with someone when the love isnt mutual... someday we have to pay for it!!!
Cheers!!!
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I " HATE to loVE"... maybe better put is... i m afraid to LOVE... i knw that it wont work out.... i m pessimist abt this :-/
as far as I knw... if u can go on loving w/o asking for anything in return the first scenario is good :-/
but welll i m no saint ... i can't live in either situation...
i want lov in return of mine... i want!!
loved this song on yur blog :)
Hey Doc,
1. hate to love is more worse.. coz if you simply hate to anything and everything then you might just end up hating yourself and there will be no motivation at all.
2.getting married and spending ur entire life with one ur crazy about is any time better, but if you want a diplomatic answer , then it is totally situational.. u might just not stand someone who is crazy about you and by no chance would even think of landing up in a relationship with her/him...
As i said totally situational..
i m actually intrigued.... you gave my brainy nerves an exercise to do for rest of the day..
Tc
for a marriage to be successful, both parties need to be interested... else it will only fall apart.
I wpuld say hate to love is better and marrying someone who's crazy abt u it better!
In marriage...it takes a lot more than love...if u love someone but they don't respond as strongly...It will only present a bleak future...if someone's crazy abt u...they'll make sure that things are easy for u...hell I'll fall in love with such a person anyway :)
First of all if you ask such questions - you are going to be categorizing the matters of heart into logical compartments and that according the me will restrict your freedom to exude love.....
if your expectations are bound by responses of the other - then you are being myopic....as you will only see what is good for you in the other person rather than what good the other person is capable of doing.....gotch - i did not ;)
I think it is worse to "Love to Hate". Just because then I would be putting all my energy and passion in HATING, which is quite a destructive emotion!
And for the other question, both are equally bad :(
may I get myself invited to read "in a nutshell"? :)
1st part : hate to love is quite ok. it keeps u away from love but if u love to hate, i feel it makes u feel morse and miserable. in short it makes u a negative person.
2nd part : marry anybody but make sure the stakeholders sustain the passion and work it out
Pass!! next question please :P
@ aneri_masi
gladly...have mailed u the invite :)
It has to be worse to love to hate----who in this world wants to hate---some times it is hard to love but I dont think that you could hate to love.
I spent 9 years of my life with someone I was crazy about and it hurt----but I would still want to be crazy about anyone I was with---if not, then why be with them ?
Wud definitely not like to be in a situation where i m wth a person who is not crazy abt me!!Coz then i will hav to put iin extra efforts to b in love wth him!! And yes "Love to Hate" is worse without any doubt!!
Hi
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1. Which is worse...
ofcourse "Love to HATE".....
I have read somewhere...
Hatred paralyzes life; love releases it. Hatred confuses life; love harmonizes it. Hatred darkens life; love illumines --Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
2. getting married and spending it with someone who's crazy about u is always better then the first one...
now why? if one is crazy about two then two does not have to worry about whether tht person will love you for the life time or not...where in the first case u never know,......
Nice post pri..
I guess it's gotta be hate to love...
as for the second one, definitely recommend getting married tpo someone who's crazy abt u...its an ego thing :)
however cliched it might sound..I would chose the second type..one who is crazy about me :)
and I think it is love to hate which is worse :)
for the first one... i think love to hate is worse than hate to love.
second, i would choose the first one... i will spend my life with the one i'm crazy about...
if i'm not in love with the one who is crazy about me... how can i lead a fake life? there are so many chances for her to getting hurt... and that will not be a justice to her love.
"love to hate" is worse acc to me and plz don't ask me why
the other one... oh god ive been asked this way too many times but i still can't choose! :(
**which according to u is better---getting married and spending ur entire life with the one ur crazy about OR getting married and spending it with someone who's crazy about u?
Neither. I want both of us to be crazy abt each other. If not I'd rather stay single..nothing worse than being stuck in a marriage based on a one-sided love.
Keshi.
Hmmm...
marry one who is crazy abt u.....but isnt practical at all:-))
Love has To be there...From both the sides...U can't take it all alone..!!
Girl I'm totally clueless !
Such ironical qus !!!
ok those are really bizarre questions. but yet thought provoking.
I think 'LOVE to hate' would be worse according to me. Cause if u love to hate you would find every reason to hate things, situations or people at the slightest thing that disagree. and that itself would make us and our lives a misery if we love to hate. we tend to find fault with everything.
'getting married and spending it with someone who's crazy about u?'
this is to me is better. I rather have him crazy abt me than me crazy abt him. But i got to feel a little something something to lead myself into marriage with him. I just hope the craziness never dies off too soon. these things can be pretty uncertain. whoops!
Interesting post. Thought provoking.
Cheers Pri.
hate to love is fine i guess one remains neutral in tat...
but if u love to hate then people like osama emerges...so this one is worst...
for 2nd queries....
just put urself in SRK's position in movie DARR..
1) u give love and love to juhi and u wont get it back..simply coz u r crazy..lolsss
2) u will be living with a guy who always says i luv u pppppppriyanka..but u r afraid of him...coz he is crazy..lolss
so luv wher craze is ther dont work..ahem..
u got a nice blog..
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Hating hurts the one who hates. And it maybe cool to hate and stupid to love, BUT its always easy to hate and difficult to love. ;)
Daactar Saheb, I've a better one:-
How many times do you love a person to "actually" LOVE them, and NOT to be loved in return? :-/
Hey Pri
Nice blog:)
I would say, 'Hate to Love' is better than 'Love to Hate'..I think hate is the root cause of so many problems in this world. I would rather have a bunch of lonely souls in this world, that people who spread 'Hatred'.
About the next question,,again for me, if those were the only two choices I had, then I would rather spend my life with someone who is crazy about me. That way, they can never hurt me :) (hopefully anyway).
Cheers !
btw..
**HATE to love or LOVE to hate---which according to you is worse??
Arent they both the same?
Keshi.
Yesh. I second Keshi.
Same difference.
Your second Question:
I'd marry the one who I love and expect my girlfriend to marry the one who's crazy about her. See that works for me just fine.:P
"I love to love you and hate to hate you" is how it goes. Given the fact that you can't stop loving and hating someone at the same time, any other way is worse.
Q2. Well, as life is, consider yourself to be lucky for any of the pf the two situation being true. But if it really happens that you have a choice, then i would definately go with the other person being crazy about you.
getting married and spending it with someone who's crazy about u..... absolutely..no two thoughts !!
@ all
thankyou for all ur responses...
it was nice to know ur insight into the matter :)
take care!
Errr..m confused....i guess whn the situations il act accordingly...phewwwww...
I have often thought about this. I guess latter one wud give more happiness. I only think so!
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